The moments around iftar are not just about eating; they are a bridge between daytime patience and evening worship. When du‘ā and prayer are placed at the center of this time, iftar becomes clearly part of ‘ibādah, not a break from it.
Iftar as a Time of Accepted Du‘ā
The Prophet ﷺ highlighted the special status of the fasting person’s supplication:
- “Three supplications are not rejected: the supplication of the fasting person, the supplication of the just ruler, and the supplication of the oppressed.” (Tirmidhi)
This includes the moments as you break your fast. Many families use this time to:
- Make quiet personal du‘ā just before Maghrib.
- Ask Allah to accept their fasting, forgive their sins, and bless their families.
- Remember the sick, the poor, and those who cannot fast.
When a family pauses for du‘ā at iftar, it reminds everyone that the true “opening” is not the plate, but the heart turning to Allah.
Collective Du‘ā After Breaking the Fast
A simple, beautiful practice is to recite a short du‘ā together after the first sip of water or bite of date. Among the well-known supplications is:
“Dhahaba al-ẓama’u wabtallati al-‘urūq wa thabata al-ajr in shā’ Allāh.”
“The thirst is gone, the veins are moistened, and the reward is confirmed, if Allah wills.” (Abu Dawud, hasan)
Some also say:
“Allāhumma laka ṣumtu wa ‘alā rizqika afṭartu.”
“O Allah, for You I have fasted, and with Your provision I break my fast.”
Saying these words together—calmly, without rush—anchors the moment in gratitude and tawakkul, not in hunger alone.
Preparing for Maghrib Prayer as a Family
Linking iftar directly to prayer reinforces that this is one continuous act of worship:
- Break the fast lightly with dates and water, following the Sunnah.
- Make du‘ā briefly.
- Then stand for Maghrib prayer, ideally in congregation at home if not going to the masjid.
The Prophet ﷺ would break his fast before praying, then perform the Maghrib prayer. Reviving this pattern helps:
- Prevent overeating before salah.
- Keep the heart focused: first obedience, then full meal.
- Teach children that salāh is central, even when food is on the table.
Attending the Mosque Together (When Possible)
For those able to reach the masjid:
- Going together for Maghrib, and later ‘Ishā and Tarāwīḥ, turns iftar into the start of an evening of worship, not the end of a long day.
- Children see Ramadan as a time of community and remembrance, not just special food.
Even if only some family members go to the mosque, planning around prayer (timing cooking, clearing space, arranging transport) sends a clear message: our schedule is built around salāh, not the other way around.
Keeping Iftar Inside Worship, Not Outside It
When families:
- Make du‘ā before and at the moment of breaking the fast,
- Break with the Sunnah (dates, water),
- Pray Maghrib promptly and together,
- Arrange their evening around salāh and Qur’an,
…then iftar sits inside worship, not separate from it. It becomes a daily reminder that every blessing on the table is a means to draw closer to the One who provided it, not a distraction from Him.
In that atmosphere, even a simple date and bowl of soup feel rich—with barakah, not just with flavour.